lol love that we have come so close that were calling each other negative nanc..LOL
seriously though, I understand both sides, I myself ran a DIY siphon overflow for a long time, I didnt have a choice..the tank that was "given"(cant complain lolz) was all tempered glass. However I built in many failsafes. It never broke siphon completely, it had 4 separate siphon tubes for redundancy, even if I didnt prime it corectly it would take weeks for it to break, showing slow rise in display tank water line. I could deal with that. I took many holidays never once showing the guy how to restart the siphon..all he had to do was add RO water for me, and feed the fish. I didnt have to build in a failsafe for the pump because..truthfully i trusted that I didnt need one.
I only say this because ive been there. Would I do it again...Not a chance. The system I have now, it totally failsafe free lol...it doesnt need any. Given you have invested in a larger tank, you should really consider how things are set up. Your only going to burn yourself out with all these "potential problems" I know just in the beginning stages youve had many issues.
In all this lol if you two really want I could make you both something to cut off your pumps. But you have to realize using a float isnt the best and most reliable method. Ive been researching a bit lately (cause im making a ATO for my tank fast before I head off to holidays....lol want my house sitter to be impressed he doesnt have to add water anymore

) Only issue is this kind of peace of mind isnt really cheep..floats, ya pretty cheep.