ya we kinda need to know what the pressure is after the prefilters, before the ro membrane. You should also do a test, 2 cups the same size, at the same time put 1 under your waste water, and one out of your ro water (with it running of course

) as the waste water cup gets full..dump it and start filling it up again. Count how many times you fill the waste water cup in the time it takes to fill the ro water cup.
From the sounds of it something is probally up with your flow restrictor. your pressure with the ro unit making water, the pressure with it not making water, and the results of the cup test, will help determine the problem. But my bet is its the flow restrictor